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When Fear Hides

Posted in: Anxiety, freedom | March 3, 2021

Fear wears many masks. I used to think it was a one-dimensional kind of thing. A nail-biting, knee-knocking kind of reaction to anything that made me nervous or afraid. But fear that doesn’t warn us away from harm is not of God. It’s darkness. A tool of our enemy. And a smart enemy doesn’t announce his attack before he strikes. He sneaks in, making himself look harmless. Attractive…sometimes even like another person altogether.

One of my favorite verses is Isaiah 41:10. “Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”  God encourages His children over and over again not to be afraid. Why? Well, one reason is because He knows every decision we make flows from either fear or love.

The opposite of love isn’t really hate. It’s fear.

Part of the problem is many of us don’t realize we are living in fear because it’s disguised itself as something completely different.

Our stomachs cramp when our expectations aren’t met or our plans collapse. The foundation beneath our feet shifts, leaving us feeling vulnerable and exposed when someone we trust ends up letting us down. Depression and exhaustion lurk from juggling so many responsibilities because we’ve been trying to keep people happy, not realizing what we really fear is rejection. For some, perhaps failing is our greatest fear so we never let our house be messy, we refuse to get less than an A on any subject, we won’t leave our house without make up on, or worse yet, we never take any risks or dream because the thought of failing is too horrific to endure.

The other faces of fear are procrastination, the need to control, isolation, laziness, greed, numbing yourself with food, alcohol, technology or busyness…all these and more reveal the destructive work of fear clawing at our hearts.

Here’s the thing: love and fear cannot co-exist. “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” ~1 John 4:18

God is love. His very presence scatters darkness. Fear has to leave when Jesus steps in.

To break free, we must let Him tug away the masks. We must sit in His presence. Live at His feet. Stop seeking our worth in things that can’t satisfy. Stop living for people who are just as broken and messy as we are.

I think of this like a coffee cup. When I’m filled with fear, there is no room for Him to pour His love and peace inside. I have to let Him empty me of myself, my old ways of thinking and living. He cleans the cup, then I’m ready to be filled with Him.

No more masks. No fear.

Speaking for myself, it wasn’t until I let Him pull the mask away that I realized I had been hiding in plain sight for years. We may think masks protect but what they really do is hide our identity. We were created for more.

We were made to dance in freedom…not cower in fear.

Tags: faces of fear, fear, hiding in plain sight, love versus fear, masks, people pleasing, perfect love casts out fear, perfectionism

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  1. AvatarNicole Santana says

    March 3, 2021 at 12:28 pm

    This post is beautiful and just what I needed. Thank you!

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    • Tara JohnsonTara Johnson says

      March 4, 2021 at 9:41 am

      You are so welcome, Nicole. Fear is sneaky business!

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  2. AvatarCharnesia Jackson says

    March 9, 2021 at 12:25 pm

    Thank you for sharing. This is a very on time word. I had definitely been hiding in plain sight for years, but when you become empties and allow Him to fill you…! Amen. <3

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    • Tara JohnsonTara Johnson says

      March 9, 2021 at 6:52 pm

      Thank you, Charnesia!

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  3. AvatarGeorge Ogugua says

    March 30, 2021 at 2:10 pm

    Thank you for this wonderful piece
    Ls help me understand, when you say hiding in plain sight , what do you mean?

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    • Tara JohnsonTara Johnson says

      March 30, 2021 at 5:40 pm

      What I mean is that fear wears many different masks. It often appears as things like people-pleasing or control issues, but is actually just fear that we will not be loved. That our life will crumble. That a loved one will leave. On and on it goes. Fear masquerades as many different things.

      Reply

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